Event Overview

Cafés are held within the beautiful landscapes of our Parks where you can feel the uplifting and healing
power of nature around you. When you lose someone you love, meeting others who can relate to how you feel can help. We promise you a warm welcome from our experienced and compassionate team.

All are welcome. Free coffee and cake! Booking is advised.

Event Overview

Cafés are held within the beautiful landscapes of our Parks where you can feel the uplifting and healing
power of nature around you. When you lose someone you love, meeting others who can relate to how you feel can help. We promise you a warm welcome from our experienced and compassionate team.

All are welcome. Free coffee and cake! Booking is advised, but please feel free to drop-in.

As more and more people begin to talk more openly about death, funerals are starting to look different. Instead of the solemn ceremonies most of us are used to, living funerals are becoming a more popular trend. That’s because they give family and friends the chance to say goodbye to their loved ones before they die, while providing the person being celebrated the opportunity to reflect on their life surrounded by the people closest to them. 

If you’ve never heard of a living funeral before, you’re not alone. We’ve created this blog post to explain more about pre-funeral ceremonies and why you might consider having one. 

What is a living funeral? 

Living funerals – or pre-funeral ceremonies as they’re also known – are held for a living person who is aware of their impending death. They’re similar to traditional funerals; only the person being remembered is very much alive during the celebration.  

Why choose a living funeral? 

While a pre-funeral ceremony isn’t the right choice for everyone, they offer those who know they’re going to die the chance to have a final celebration with their friends and family. Some people choose to have a living funeral because it ensures their final wishes are met. In many cases, instead of loved ones being responsible for funeral arrangements, the person being remembered has complete control – right down to the music, theme and dress code. But there’s also the benefit of having friends and family around to help plan the ceremony if you need support. 

Having a funeral before the person dies takes the stress of paying for and arranging a funeral away from those left behind, giving them time and space to grieve for their loved one once they’re gone. Pre-funeral ceremonies can also provide friends and family with closure – particularly if their loved one has a terminal illness.  

Some people take comfort in sharing memories and celebrating their loved one’s life while they’re still alive and well enough to enjoy their final send-off.  

Why are living funerals so popular?  

The idea of a living funeral first started in Japan in the mid-90s. Known as seizenso – which literally translates to “funeral while alive” – living funerals were born out of the idea that the younger generations were being burdened by the stress of planning their elders’ funerals.  

But even though living funerals aren’t a new idea, they’ve recently been made more popular after comedian Dawn French reprised her popular role as The Vicar of Dibley to deliver a eulogy at her friend Kris Hallenga’s living funeral. According to an article in The Daily Express, Kris, who’s living with stage-four cancer, arranged her “FUNeral” so she could be “drunk on love and gratitude” while celebrating her life with her loved ones. 

What to consider when planning a living funeral 

Planning a living funeral is similar to planning a party and is slightly easier than traditional funeral planning because you don’t need to worry about the burial, coffin or cremation. One of the first things to consider is the location of your living funeral. Here are some ideas: 

There are also the finer elements of funeral planning to think about, such as: 

Now that you know more about a living funeral, you might have some idea about whether a pre-funeral ceremony is the right choice for you or not. But whether you choose to have a living funeral or not, there are many advantages to pre-planning your funeral.  

Not only does thinking ahead give you time to think about important decisions, but pre-planning means you can have the ceremony exactly as you want it. It can also relieve your loved ones from the burden of having to make difficult decisions once you’re gone. Find out more about the benefits in our guide to planning your funeral before you die.  

Funerals are deeply personal, emotional ceremonies to honour the life and memory of a loved one. As part of these ceremonies, flowers have traditionally been used to express love, respect, and sympathy. However, in recent years, concerns about the environmental impact of traditional funeral flower arrangements have emerged. Many of these designs, though beautiful, are unsustainable, often constructed with single-use plastic elements such as floral foam, ribbons made from synthetic materials and plastic tape which can contribute to plastic pollution and landfill waste.

In response to these concerns, a growing number of eco-conscious florists are offering sustainable alternatives to traditional funeral flowers. These eco-friendly flower arrangements not only minimise environmental impact but also reflect the beauty and purity of nature, which can add an extra layer of meaning to the tribute for those seeking a more natural ceremony for their loved ones.


Sophie Newman Floristry


Why Choose Eco-Friendly Funeral Flowers?

It’s estimated that over 14,670 cubic meters of floral foam and single-use plastic are sent to UK landfills every year from crematoriums alone – that’s the equivalent of six Olympic-sized swimming pools! This statistic highlights the staggering waste generated by traditional funeral practices. Many florists still use floral foam – a type of plastic that crumbles over time and releases harmful microplastics into the environment. Funeral flower arrangements created with these materials not only contribute to landfill waste but also have the potential to leach harmful chemicals into the soil and groundwater.

Plastic floral foam has been the mainstay of funeral floristry since it was invented in the 1950s. It sits at the heart of most of the letters, shapes and 3D tributes which you may see travelling by in hearses, massed in the viewing areas of crematoriums, or laid on graves in all parts of the UK.

Given what we now know about the negative impact of plastic on the environment, many families are opting for sustainable alternatives. Eco-friendly funeral flowers are made without floral foam or plastic materials and use seasonal, locally sourced flowers to reduce the carbon footprint. Instead of plastic supports, florists may use biodegradable materials like moss or bamboo to structure the arrangements.

Sustainable Funeral Flower Alternatives

There are several ways to create meaningful and sustainable funeral flower arrangements that honour the memory of a loved one while protecting the environment:

  1. Hand-Tied Sheaves
    A hand-tied sheaf is a popular eco-friendly alternative to traditional casket sprays. These arrangements consist of a flat-backed bouquet with open-cut stems tied together with natural fibres, such as cotton or jute. The absence of floral foam or plastic means the entire arrangement can be buried with the casket or returned to nature without leaving any waste behind. When created with local, seasonal flowers, the carbon footprint is significantly reduced.

    Helen Sheard Floral Designs
  2. Foam-Free Wreaths
    Wreaths are a common choice for funerals, but traditional wreaths are often made with floral foam rings or polystyrene bases. Eco-friendly alternatives involve creating wreaths with natural plant materials, like willow or grapevine, to form the structure. These wreaths are fully biodegradable and can be left at the burial site without concern for lingering pollution.

    Helen Sheard Floral Designs
  3. Compostable Casket Tributes
    For those looking for a more elaborate arrangement to sit atop a casket, many florists now offer fully compostable designs. These tributes use natural materials, such as moss instead of floral foam to support the flowers. In some cases, florists will create reusable bases made from plant fibres or mineral-based supports that can be reclaimed after the ceremony. This eliminates waste and ensures that no harmful materials are buried with the casket. 

    Woodchurch Cottage Flowers
  4. Seasonal and Local Blooms
    Another way to reduce the environmental impact of funeral flowers is to choose blooms that are in season and grown locally. Imported flowers require more resources for transportation and often come with a larger carbon footprint due to the energy needed for refrigeration and transit. By selecting flowers that are in season and locally sourced, you not only support local growers but also reduce the overall environmental impact.

    Woodchurch Cottage Flowers
  5. Plastic-Free Packaging and Bouquets
    If family and friends are bringing flowers to the service, they can be encouraged to avoid bouquets wrapped in plastic or tied with plastic ribbons. Instead, guests can opt for flowers wrapped in biodegradable paper or natural fabrics. Alternatively, they can contribute to a memorial charity in lieu of flowers, further reducing waste while supporting a meaningful cause.

    The Shropshire Flower Company

How to Find Eco-Friendly Florists

In the UK, Farewell Flowers is a directory that helps families find local florists who specialise in creating plastic-free and environmentally conscious funeral flower arrangements. These florists are committed to focusing on sustainable materials and creating unique, meaningful arrangements that reflect the personality and interests of the person being remembered.

Choosing a Green Burial Site

For those organising a green funeral or burial, it’s important to check with the site about any rules they may have regarding flower displays. Some green burial sites have strict guidelines to ensure that only native plants are left on the land and that no plastic or non-biodegradable materials are used. Florists who specialise in eco-friendly funeral flowers are typically well-versed in these regulations and can create designs that adhere to the site’s guidelines.

Additionally, you can consider a Living Memorial, Living Memorials are increasingly popular for those seeking an eco-friendly way to honour loved ones.

These memorials offer a lasting tribute that grow and flourish, symbolising their life, legacy and lasting imprint on the natural world. One of the many options we have in our GreenAcres Parks is a Living Memorial Tree. Whether used for burials, a final resting place for ashes, or a special dedication; a Living Memorial Tree offers a sustainable alternative to traditional memorials, aligning personal remembrance with ecological responsibility.

By planting a Living Memorial Tree, you create a personal and lasting space for reflection while contributing positively to the environment. These trees provide habitat for wildlife, enhance air quality, contribute positively to the ecosystem and help sequester carbon.

See more on eco-burials here

Final Thoughts

Eco-friendly funeral flowers offer a way to honour loved ones in a meaningful, thoughtful manner while protecting the environment. Whether you choose hand-tied sheaves, compostable casket tributes, or wreaths made from natural materials, these arrangements ensure that your final farewell doesn’t come at the cost of our planet’s health. By working with sustainable florists and considering green alternatives, we can all play a part in reducing waste and preserving the beauty of nature, even in our moments of deepest grief.

If you’re planning a funeral and would like to make eco-conscious decisions, Farewell Flowers Directory is a wonderful resource to find UK florists dedicated to providing plastic-free and sustainable options. Let’s make the final tribute to our loved ones as gentle on the Earth as their memory is on our hearts.

Whatever your wishes we are here to work with you and your Funeral Director to give you a personalised service and the support you need. Get in touch with us to find out more.

Image Credits: the florists listed below kindly allowed us to share their photos, they are all registered with the Farewell Flowers Directory. Click the links below to visit their websites.
Helen Sheard Floral Designs
Woodchurch Cottage Flowers
The Shropshire Flower Company
Sophie Newman Floristry 

12.08.2024

GREENACRES REBRAND

GreenAcres Cemeteries and Ceremonial Parks are excited to announce that they are updating their brand to GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks. For the last two decades GreenAcres have created beautiful, natural spaces in British woodlands and landscapes that help people come to terms with life after loss, these parks are quite literally memorial destinations that are alive.  Their Parks provide space to heal, remember, and connect with nature.

The new brand reflects their commitment to nurturing the natural environment to enable more people to live with loss more easily. While their look and feel may be refreshed, families and funeral professionals can be assured that their parks continue to offer the same prestigious services that many have come to know and trust.

The website has been redesigned with spectacular photography and videos to allow people to experience the tranquil spaces teeming with richly diverse flora and fauna before they visit: www.greenacresgroup.co.uk

Whilst you can take a virtual walk through their sunny glades, technology cannot replace actually visiting a GreenAcres Living Memorial Park to breathe in the sweet aroma of blossoms, and feel the gentle meadow breeze on your skin.

Managing Director Christopher Koller said: ‘Bereavement isn’t an easy battle to survive, and we want to reach more families across the UK. People’s personal journey with grief is so much more than the day of the funeral. Our parks are designed for the living to provide space to reflect and continue the memory of those who have died. Families tell us how much hope we have given them by providing them opportunity to create modern rituals and establish helpful habits of remembrance. Our aim is to help people live with loss more easily in our natural and comforting places, having designed our parks as destinations families want to visit.’ 

Supporting families through the journey of loss and participating in the local community are core values at GreenAcres. GreenAcres organise a variety of events throughout the year as well as hosting regular monthly Bereavement Cafés held in every Park for all families regardless of whether they have been customers. The GreenAcres Bereavement Cafés provide kind and supportive spaces where individuals can find understanding and connection with others who are living life after loss. For more information about the Bereavement Cafés and other events, please visit greenacresgroup.co.uk/support-resources/events/

At a time when the cost of living, land scarcity, changes to planning regulations, a need for greater regulation, are just some of the factors impacting families and the sector more widely,  GreenAcres rebrand is an output, not an outcome.  The rebrand re-confirms its commitment to helping the nation constructively evolve its approach to bereavement. This signals much to come from this organisation and how it supports families, facilitates conversations about death and dying with local organisations, authorities, and government.

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It may seem strange to be thinking about your own death and what happens afterwards. But planning how – and where – you’d like to be remembered is part of your legacy. End-of-life planning involves several key components. To help you organise the perfect send-off, we’ve created this simple step-by-step guide on what to consider when pre-planning your funeral and why it’s a beneficial process.

1/ Ease the financial burden on your family

Planning your funeral in advance not only alleviates the emotional and financial burden on your family but can also lead to significant cost savings. No insurance policy covers everything, and with inflation rising each year, paying for your service and plot in advance will save money in the long run. Of course, it also means your family will be free from any financial burden, as well as the emotional cost of having to make important decisions when the time comes.

Pre-purchased plots can now be supported by a 10-month, interest-free instalment plan, available through Direct Debit or a Funeral Safe loan via GreenAcres. For further information, please speak to a member of the team at your local Park.

2/ Get the funeral you want

Everyone deserves to have their wishes honoured when the time comes. By making arrangements early, you’ll ensure that you’re remembered in the way you want and gain peace of mind. Pre-planning also allows you to discuss your wishes with your loved ones, ensuring that you receive the send-off you deserve,  

3/ Ensure you have an up-to-date will

Having an up-to-date will written by a solicitor is essential for ensuring your wishes are respected and followed. A valid will also alleviates the burden of difficult decisions and legal complications from your family.

If you don’t have a will or need to update yours, Free Wills Month provides an opportunity for anyone aged 55 and over to have a simple will written or updated free of charge at designated times of the year by participating solicitors across England, Scotland, and Wales.   

To get involved, simply click here and enter your details on the Free Wills Month website to find participating solicitors near you.

4/ Appoint an individual with durable power of attorney

A durable power of attorney is a crucial legal document that authorises another person to make decisions regarding your finances, health and welfare if you become incapacitated. By appointing a trusted friend or loved one, you can avoid the need for costly and stressful court proceedings should you be unable to make decisions for yourself. This is particularly important if you are dealing with a long-term or terminal illness.

5/ Specify preferences for your funeral, burial, or cremation

Regardless of your spiritual or religious beliefs, deciding between burial or cremation is a significant choice. You may opt for a simple cremation with your ashes scattered in a place special to you, or you may prefer a traditional burial as a more fitting tribute. Taking the time to make this decision early helps take the stress away from your loved ones during a difficult time.

6/ Select your final resting place or memorial

Choosing your final resting place or memorial in advance can provide you and your family with a sense of peace before you pass. You have a range of options, from tranquil, sustainably managed woodlands and beautiful wildflower meadows to meticulously maintained parkland. 

Alternatively, you might prefer a simple oak or granite plaque with an inscription to mark your grave. In GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks, you can place a memorial bench, rose bush, or leaf vault, each with an engraved plaque.

All our prices for each memorial option are the same across our Parks. Speak to a member of our friendly team to explore your options and find the right memorial option for you.

7/ Consider the environmental impact of your funeral

If you’re considering a sustainable funeral to minimise your environmental impact, there are several options available:

At GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks, we’ve made these choices easier for you by implementing a range of eco-friendly and conservation policies to protect the landscape. Speak to a member of our friendly and knowledgeable team to find out more.

8/ Explore themes, music and colours that you may wish your life to be celebrated 

A funeral or memorial service is a special opportunity to celebrate your life. While traditional etiquette suggests wearing black, you might prefer having your loved ones dress in vibrant colours to say their goodbyes. You can also personalise the service with a customised coffin, your favourite music, or theme that reflects your hobbies, interests, or culture. 

Discuss your wishes with your loved ones, as they can help you plan the perfect send-off and offer ideas you may not have considered. In fact, many families tell us that the conversation they’d been dreading turned into laughter and smiles.

We’re here to help

If you need advice on funeral planning or want a friendly ear to talk through your options, we’re here to help. Click here for more information. You can: